u/tyandfu

Is there a label that is "middle ground"?
I'm looking for label that would be a term for people who are usually only attracted to nonbinary/androgynous-aligned genders and genderless individuals, but occasionally feel little attraction to women/feminine-aligned genders and men/masculine-aligned genders.

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u/tyandfu — 10 days ago

Hello everyone! I just was arguing with someone on twitter and things they were saying made me question some things about my own believes. I also seen tiktoks and tweets about these topics and I do want to be educated as much as I can, so I come here with few questions :)
The argument was about a nonbinary trans woman who labeled herself as a lesbian. Some commenters argued that they cannot be a lesbian since she's nonbinary, others did argue that lesbian is a non-men loving non-men and their AGAB doesn't matter.

I do apologize for questions "valid or not", english is not my 1st language and I am not sure how can I ask these questions in any other way without being offensive towards somebody.

  1. Can nonbinary people be gay/lesbian?
  2. If yes, does their AGAB matter? (ie. afab enby can be lesbian, but amab cant). Why?
  3. Transmasc lesbians and transfem gays - valid or not? Why?
  4. Trans men lesboys and trans women gaybians - valid or not? Why?

I'd also would like to ask about "nonbinary trans women" and "nonbinary trans men". I do understand those terms as someone on non-binary spectrum, who identifies closer to a specific gender than being more in neutral sphere or outside of the binary, but I'd like to hear a confirmation or to be corrected if my understanding is wrong

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u/tyandfu — 15 days ago