My husband and I have been looking at egg donors, but haven’t found the right person yet. We’re both white, and originally we’re only looking for someone who was also 100% white — we both thought it would be unfair to intentionally conceive a mixed race child who doesn’t even have a parent that looks like them or understand their lived experience.
But it’s been tough to find the right donor. And we’re now considering looking at white hispanic women. So, someone where a biracial child would likely look white. Or, potentially not even really biracial, since both parents are ‘white’? Idk.
We’ve been slowly talking about the idea, which we ourselves are not 100% sold on, with trusted friends and family. But we’re curious what the general population would think.