How do you cope with heartbreak. The grief is killing me.
How can I manage to come out of this grief and pain. ?
I’m ‘40M’, married for 15 years. Have a 10F year old. We don’t have a happy marriage. The only reason we are still married is for the kid. I was threatened with divorce many times but we didn’t go through for the kid and I just kept my mouth shut and took the insults. I met a 44F old woman with 3 kids. I fell deeply in love with her, she became my whole universe in this 6 months. I came out of depression with renewed energy for life. I had some things to wrap up on my family side and wanted to move forward with divorce and marrying her. All of a sudden things change and started pushing me away and curt me off. Found out it’s because her kids found out that she is involved with a married man. She pretty much called it off. I begged her and asked her to wait for me till I wrap things on my end and that I will beg the kids permission but I don’t get a reply. I’m devastated and heartbroken. How do I overcome this deep pain and sorrow.