AITA - Two Invitations?
AITA for not wanting to send two separate invitations, one to my side and one to my fiancé's? For context, my fiancé's whole family is very open about being late (on purpose) for everything, they keep saying its a cultural thing. We showed up to a family event of his almost two hours late and were the first people there. They're all telling me that I should make two invitations and send one to their side of the family with the start time at least 2 hours earlier then we actually want them there, and one to my side with the correct time. IMO I feel like this is ridiculous and have stated to them more then once that if you can plan to be late, you can plan to be on time.
My fiancé is on my side with this and has said that he will call everyone and let them know if they can't be on time to RSVP no. This isn't a random backyard birthday party and I just feel like it's really disrespectful to the people who are planning, paying for, and wanting you to celebrate with them. I also understand that it's just one extra step (on top of everything else that goes with planning a wedding), but I guess when do I actually put my foot down? AITA?