u/sweetvanillin

I’ve been dating a guy for about a month and I’m starting to feel pretty unsure about him.

He has mentioned another girl he’s in contact with a few times (around 3 times total). She initially flirted with him when they met, but they’re not close and he says she’s seeing someone else. Recently he told me she texted him again and said he wasn’t going to engage with her.

Yesterday he messaged me saying this girl asked if he was around the store where they first met. He said he was nearby and might go say hi.

Overall I’m feeling a bit turned off and uneasy, but I’m not sure if I’m overthinking early dating dynamics or if this is actually a red flag around boundaries/respect.

Be honest — am I overreacting or is this a bad sign?