Argument from just wanting to be heard
Just a journal entry from last night
“I came to you just wanting to be listened to and it turned into you telling me my emotions are too much and I burn you out, you stated I have no regard for what’s going on with you or in your life and that i expect the best but don’t come nearly close when giving it. Oh and apparently my healing has a timeline because if I’m not over it in a year in your words “wtf are we doing”.
I came to you for a listening ear and I’m the hypocrite, the dick and the one who needs to get over it. Alright oh and apparently when I cry I’m weaponizing my emotions”
Partner states I am emotionally overwhelming him and that it’s “always something” no matter how hard he tries and that emotionally I suck. The night ended in him saying “you’re stronger then you give yourself credit for and sometimes I’m not as strong as you give me credit for” the night ended with him trying to settle me down and us saying our I love yous.
I cannot help feeling disregarded completely as I was just trying to share my feeling about how I’ve been struggling more recently with ruminating thoughts. I didn’t want more answers or for him to fix anything. I just wanted him to listen. It started off well
With him saying “we’re fine, you have nothing to worry about. I’ve been showing you through actions were ok” and he blew up and started saying how I am emotionally too much for him, how I expect so much and give so little. I just don’t understand how me wanting to be hard turned into how I’m awful in so many ways to him.