u/srxCold

(The old photos and new photos are alternate and old photos are from 2022-2024)
I was always insecure about how i looked(though i shouldn’t have been now that i look back, no one deserves to feel insecure ) . Was always super lathargic, low energy, no confidence, 0 communication skills
regularly indulged in substances, alcohol, and college kids stuff(i still have fun sometimes but like not more than twice a month) , was detained in my college and was not able to sit in on campus placements

Then i read atomic habits and implemented it in my life, slowly things started to fall into place, i got healthier, optimistic, confident, my skin became better , got an offcampus job .

The flex here for me is - i was super lazy like super duper lazy, unhygienic, nashedi , procrastinator pro max and will power almost non existent but I managed to turn it around .

Still have a long way to go and also for the folks who think it doesn’t work out- i assure you it does, just make conscious decisions towards it.

(Btw this is my 4th or 5th post in this sub, if you remember me from these posts - gifted my parent from my first salary, gave my friends party , house view , our new home , and So now i am kinda using this sub to document my live events here , i am hoping the next post will be “the startup i have been working in blew up” 🤞🤞) , thank you for all the love you guys gave me in my previous posts and keep growing in this game of life

Was always insecure of appearance(which i shouldn’t have been now that i look back, no one deserves to feel insecure) , anyways, then i just started eating right, hitting the gym, and tretinoin for skin.
Old photos are from 2022-2024

My original post was showing y’ll the view from our home which i posted yesterday
some of you said you would like to see the home itself , so here it is (sneaked me and my dog in too in our little hut outside our home where i like sitting during night)

We moved in last July here , earlier also lived in dehradun only in different area.

Edit 2- many you asked for an invite , and sure when next time i am in dehradun and if anyone of you is in dehradun at that time hit me up. I promise ill try getting it done

Edit- my father is not a politician or anything or nor does he do corruption😭😭 he just owns a furniture business which he started at 17
My chacha owns a CA firm , both our families live in this house - 9 people
And we are not from generational wealth or anything, just my father’s dreams and sacrifices and savings literally over multiple years. Biggest proof we dont come from generational wealth is that we have still have old monk and blender’s pride bottles in our bar if you look closely 🤣🤣🤣

I am working as a software developer intern in a startup in west bengal under 45k per month, i am 21🙏🥲

I miss this everyday (i am working somewhere else) . i am super proud of my dad and mom as we got this house built recently and this place is just serene .

Btw if you remember me- i am the same guy who gifted my parents watches and gave my friends a party with my first and second salary respectively , I received so much love in this subreddit i just wanted to post something and engage with you all😭

I miss this so bad every freaking day😭
(context- i am not in dehradun right now , working somewhere else currently)
We used to live in vijay colony(hathi badkala) and recently shifted here

Can you make out the location(most of you have been here i promise)

Preferably in this area,

Have been looking for sometime now but havent find anythjng suitable

Can be a 1bhk or 2bhk flat or room with attach kitchen and bathroom

No restrictions and independent

For working male - software developer

Age - 21

Only 1 male alone