Scared to move to SF 32F
Hi guys! I hope this is relevant here. I’ve had a hard few years and am generally feeling very lost and traumatized after what feels like a 2 year crash out. I’ve moved around a good bit and most recently moved to a somewhat close beach town from SoCal after a 5 year relationship ended, and things were looking up and felt like I was building community but struggled with trying to balance a new relationship before I was ready and realizing I need to switch career paths, culminating in further lows after being teased with highs and feeling like a massive idiot. I got a job offer that requires me to move to SF but I have never felt less optimistic about my life and trusting myself to create a beautiful future.
Can anyone help sharing success stories of moving to SF alone in your 30s and/or the city supporting you in a time of need?
I have never lived in a city so I am also hoping there can be some city magic to tap into. I spend a lot of time in nature (when I’m not clinically depressed like now) so I also worry I’ll struggle even more. Stories about tapping into SF nature on a regular basis or outdoor sports communities also welcomed!