u/soveryverymuchnotok

im (25f) going to a bookclub/social club for the first time. the host said not to bring anything.
however

  1. i was taught to never show up empty handed
  2. im vegan but im pretty sure the host doesn’t know

would it be rude if i bring vegan cookies or a cake? or anything else since i feel weird not bringing anything.
the group is (mostly) middle aged women ive never met (except one who isnt the host).

UPDATE:
i sent her a message telling her im vegan and asking if i should bring anything vegan friendly. turns out shes also vegan 😂. Thanks for all the help 🫶

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u/soveryverymuchnotok — 11 days ago