Hey everyone,
I’m 19F and I was thinking it could be fun to do a small group hangout this weekend in Tangier. Maybe around 4–5 people max, mixed guys and girls, ages around 19–21.
We could go check out some nice spots, chill, talk, take pics, maybe grab food or coffee and just enjoy the vibe. Nothing too complicated, just a relaxed and fun outing with cool people
Hiiiiiiii,
I’m 19 years old and I’ve never been in a relationship before. Not because I’m against relationships or because I don’t want one — actually the opposite. I’ve always wanted to experience love, have a boyfriend, discover myself in a romantic relationship, and live the kind of experiences most people around me seem to have already lived.
Sometimes I even feel embarrassed when girls my age talk about their exes or relationships and I have nothing to say. I know being in a relationship isn’t everything in life, but I still want to experience it at least once with someone I truly love and who truly loves me back.
After thinking a lot about it, I realized the main reason I struggle is probably my appearance. Most guys nowadays seem to choose girls mainly based on looks, body, face, etc. And honestly, I don’t think I fit today’s beauty standards. I’m very skinny (48kg for 173cm), and I don’t think my face is especially pretty either.
The thing is, I’m not writing this to insult myself or seek pity. I actually do like myself as a person, and I try to be realistic about how I look. But it hurts feeling like no one will ever genuinely see me beyond that.
What scares me isn’t being single right now. What scares me is the idea that I might never experience mutual love at all, just because I’m not physically attractive enough for people to notice me in the first place.
I just wanted to share this and hear honest opinions or experiences from other people. Has anyone else felt this way before? And did things ever change for you?