u/sky9n

How to ask a guy is a feminist?

How do I ask a prospective arranged marriage candidate whether he is a feminist without outright asking him? Because

  1. He might try to change his answer depending on what he knows of me

  2. He may get too scared of the word 'feminist' while maybe being an ally without actually understanding what these words mean

I'm almost 30, F (my beloved mother thinks it is 3 years too late for me and the market is too bad) so I'm officially involved in the search now and I'd like to filter guys out at the outset as much as possible without having to waste my time in getting to know someone whose social beliefs and value system won't align with mine. So what should I ask him maybe indirectly or by giving him a hypothetical situation so that I can gauge what he thinks?

Besides this anyone who has gone through the process themselves or is currently in it and has any other tips on topics besides what I've asked about, always open to hearing others out.

Thanks a lot in advance

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u/sky9n — 10 hours ago