How are you able to accept the situation?
Fiancee and me have been together for almost 7 years. For the last couple years he's been struggling more and more with depression. Jobs were never right, the complete job field was never fulfilling, family doesn't care as much as he'd like. Friendships went very shallow after moving away for the last couple years. Never been officially diagnosed however, because he refuses therapy or counseling. He says the pessimistic mood is only because of this or that. If he is able to change this or that, symptoms will go away. He has me that's enough etc.
I know if he refuses to seek help, I am not in the position to "fix" him. I read many books, held countless conversations with Claude on what to do. But it all seems pointless. His mother is a little open to support him, but has physical struggles on her own. They are in contact regularly but whenever she asks about his mental health he brushes it off, everything's fine.
It's just so tiring that it feels like we're treading on the same spot since months. I know I can't cure anything really but I can't seem to accept that. I'm just scared that this is what our life will be like forever or that he gets worse.
How do you deal with this?