Did you ever outgrow a type that you used to feel attracted to?
Random thought, lately I have noticed that maybe it’s because of becoming older and having more life experiences, I don’t feel nearly as attracted to some types of the guys that I used to find attractive.
For example, I was really into scruffy looking guys(growing up in a country where you don’t see a lot of them), now I still like them, but not something I’m too crazy about, since they are just so common here.
I used to also think that I was quite attracted to hairy looking bears, then I realized that I was actually attracted to the perceived masculinity, not to be mean or anything, but most bears are not that. And it’s harder for me to feel attracted to someone when I feel they don’t take good care of themselves. (Please don’t call me fatphobic). On the other hand, the roided looking guys also lost their appearss on me. It's not a sustainable look and takes away a lot of space for someone be more than just their looks.
The one quality that has always been important to me is kindness. Someone who is easy going and kind, is actually just incredibly sexy to me regardless of their physical attributes lol.
What are yours?