My husband just texted me:
My dad invited us over for a BBQ in the afternoon on Mother’s Day.
Just ignored. Moved on. This is my second Mother’s Day. I just gave birth to our second 11 weeks ago. My DH asked what I wanted for Mother’s Day a few weeks ago… which I thought was weird since in my head I thought - whatever you plan?
I did think tho hey, let’s at least think and get something I want out of it. I said I wanted an uninterrupted morning (no alarms…,gym, shower, watch some bad tv, etc, than we can do brunch (we are morning people, so that would be like 10am after all that happens). So really… nothing really for him to do other than parent in the morning by himself. I even said brunch could be at the diner nearby. Then I added - and whatever you plan for the afternoon. :)
Queue this text. So, I know it sounds like a DH problem, and well it is. He’s been working on his spine, but damn that’s literally the last thing I want to do. Let’s see what happens. Guess nothing is planned for the latter half of the day…. End rant.