I built a small system to remember people better because I wanted to become more thoughtful
I’ve been trying to become better at remembering the small details people share with me.
Not just birthdays, but things like:
\- what someone is going through
\- what they are excited about
\- food preferences
\- gift ideas
\- follow-ups I should remember
\- small personal details from conversations
I realized that forgetting these things doesn’t always mean we don’t care. Sometimes life is busy, our mind is overloaded, and small details slip away.
So I started building a simple private system for myself, and it turned into an Android app called Nearfolks.
The idea is simple: a private relationship notebook where you can save notes about people, organize them into circles, set reminders, and refresh your memory before meeting someone again.
I built it with privacy in mind:
\- no account
\- no cloud
\- no tracking
\- works offline
\- data stays on your phone
There is a free version, and the upgrade is a one-time optional purchase for unlimited people, extra themes, and backups. No subscription.
I’m not trying to turn relationships into a productivity hack or a sales CRM. I just wanted a gentle way to remember people better and show up more thoughtfully.
Would you use something like this, or do you already have your own method for remembering people and follow-ups?