u/selfdoubtgirl

Hi there! We are heading back to CA as my husband’s job already left Nashville too. We relocated here and company covered the costs (time when we dont have stuff to bring just clothes, and w/o baby yet) 😅

Now that we are a family of 3 and in Nashville for over 3 yrs, we accumulated our stuff, couple of furnitures and now baby stuff. Question is does anyone have an idea how much it’d cost for movers from TN to CA in maybe a mid size vehicle if we bring all our stuff?

If not, where and how to easily sell home things, furnitures aside from just Marketplace? If we decide to sell everything, we are hoping to get atleast a decent amount to help with this move and maybe just a small vehicle to move our infant’s stuff, and separately moving our cars back to CA.

Appreciate any details! Thank you 🙏🏻

I thought newborn phase will gonna end me lol SOO EXTREMELY TOUGH. Colic, high needs, velcro baby. Everything. Got a little better at 4.5’ish mos but from 6mos and even now at 7.5mos - the night frequent wake up remains. Lucky if I get to have atleast a 2 hrs stretch. At this stage, teething - always bothering the poor bub. Got camilla drops, dr. Talbots tablets, gels - can these be used everyday mostly for night time? 😩

This stage - baby got a lot of frustration for not being able to stand up, crawl lol. Idk anymore. I just cant wait to have a consistent happy baby. 🥲🥲

No other child care, just me. Both me & husband got full time jobs. I work around nights, child care by the day. Its crazy. Tried day care - 2 wks in baby got COVID. Its the worst.

I love my bub my entire life, but man - when can we really take a well deserved break 🥲

Recos for reasonable/affordable korean dol setup 🙏🏻🇰🇷

Anyone selling lower/floor lvl tickets or even best if VIP with SC pls? 😭

Hello! Anyone know any rental services like this https://www.hellodesignandparty.com/contact in Irvine? TIA! ❤️

7mos PP, still navigating as first time mom living in a foreign country w/o any village or help around + back to work full time after my 6mos mat leave. Its hella crazy 🥲

I hate my husband for not being 100% functional and all he does is work and justify the ‘work’ for not helping as much. He works typical 9-5 and not the end of the world if he dont get to sleep 9hrs as an adult. While me, would do it all. Baby, household, name it. Just recently he’s starting to wake his senses up and starting to function and help or maybe its just mother’s szn? Lol 🙂‍↔️ We talked about this bunches of time, but IDK why guys are just fine to think that as long as they provide - THATS IT?!

Being a woman is INTENSELY TOUGH. I dont even have time to do quick workouts to get back to my shape. I hate my body, my skin, hair, face. Plus the nonstop frequent night wake ups, non stop attend to baby (colic, cry, high needs, velcro baby) 🙂‍↔️ While I love her SOOO MUCH, I’m just a human too and need to reset, rest and sleep. When all these gets easier? 🥲

From 4mos pregnancy up until now - I havent had any intimate moment with my husband and weird enough - I’m so fine with it. I dont crave it and such even he does some moves at times. I just dont feel anything. Is this normal? Is it because my brain is just completely wired, plus thinking it would hurt so bad to do the deed again even after 7mos and such? Idk, I think I just wanna feel good and still want to work things out with my husband or I’m just in PP rage 😌

Craving for a major pause and alone time is clear to me that I need the most 🥹

Trying my luck everywhere and still have hopes! New army here 😭

Threads - I cant.. obv lot of scams. 🥲🥲🥲

This will be my first ever concert and new army here so want to make the best out of it! Cant see any in SH / COT 😭 I still have my hopes up that I’d be able to get this! ❤️🥹 I am watching all their concert clips and the soundcheck alone look soooo awesome!!

Let me see them up close!!! 😭 hahaha

This BTS fever is sooo REALLL!! I love all of them 🥰 I’m spending my days watching episodes of Run BTS and Bon Voyage and lot of videos abt them, how they started, their journey and each members’ stories. They are soo humble!! 🤍

Hi there! Hope this is allowed on this sub, recently moved in Irvine and about to celebrate my baby’s 1st! 💕

We are aiming for just small but playful party (max of 50people) any recommendations for the following please with acceptable fees 🙏🏻😅

- outdoor venue (can cater 50people + softplay)
- small softplay/inflatable rentals
- catering preferred Korean dishes (inc. drinks & desserts)
- table & chairs rentals (adults and kids)
- photobooth
- kids entertainment (clown? 😅, magician, face paint)
- arch balloons, backdrops, venue decors etc.

Thanks so much! 💕