Does my husband suck?
Our son is 8 months old. He’s driven down the road with him maybe once while I was napping..he doesn’t even know how to properly put him in the car seat. Has never done bath time. He read a book to him one time because we sat with him on the couch for story time. Doesn’t typically willingly hang out with him, it’s usually me asking him to ”watch” him while I shower or make dinner or get 15 mins to lay on the bed by myself. Once in awhile on the weekend he’ll watch him in the morning so I can get an extra hour of sleep. Half the time I get him back with poop in his diaper because SO doesn’t even know what it smells like he’s with him so little. I told him he should take him out for his errands around town today and he said no…maybe when he’s 3 or 4 and walking. Like are you kidding??? He’ll tell you he spends a lot of time with him because he counts seeing him throughout the day as “spending time.” Like in and out of his office while he’s working.
What he does do is play with him when I ask. Sometimes he’ll ask to hold him and hang with him for a few. He works remote and I’m a SAHM. He helps with chores around the house on the weekend. I’ve tried to bring it up and he just argues why I’m wrong.