u/riyaa786

qualifications/Pg clinical psychology
I’m in a really stressful situation right now and need urgent advice.

I’ve been dealing with health issues and because of that I wasn’t able to attend college for some time. I’m now trying to get back, but I don’t know how to properly communicate with the college management or get them to consider my case.

I don’t have any contacts or influential people who can help me push this forward, and I feel stuck. My college is in Poonamallee, Chennai.

If anyone knows what I can do in this situation—like who I can approach (student grievance cell, legal help, government complaint, anything that actually works)—please tell me.

I really need help figuring out how to get my situation heard before things get worse academically.

Could be emotional abuse, betrayal, manipulation, bullying, family issues, relationships, trauma, humiliation, abandonment, anything.

I think sometimes people silently carry things nobody around them understands, and I want to know how others survived it and whether they healed from it.

Wanna relocate there from TN

So imma medical student. I wasn’t interested in any sort of relationship even frdship tbh. He cane in my life like green forest available 24*7 always will be there for me. He will support me. Etc etc. exactly wtever we need in a relationship. He said he was a business man who produce furniture n he do hv a own factory guess wt no that wasn’t real he never had such thing. He only had a small business which he runs in insta came to know few months later. He was always ranting things like he is best man lyk his frds used to hangout but he never did and all that wasn’t true nthg was true. He does gold smuggling. He was physical with multiple girls. He was a scammer. When i just asked for commitment he was ranting things saying that his dad before passing away made a promise to his frd that he and his daughter shld get married n he can’t break it. He was constantly playing this drama after being physical and then used to cry saying he needs 15 lakhs. Then comes my frd who had crush on me for years. He found all his details and he was like no that can’t be true those images or ai created. Guess wt I believed him. Ofcourse i was in luv ryt. But everything was fizzy he was constantly crying for money so i just asked my frd who is a business man where i wrd as well previously to lend me some money he did. But at one cost I should lie to this guy that he had used me physically forcefully before giving money to him. Coz he knew his real side very well. I did it i cried everyday for fooling him guess wt this guy agreed to take such money which i lied as if it cane from wrong way. Then everything seemed to be wrong he said say him i hv ur footage and am torturing you i did it coz this man is lying about everything, wtelse I could do.all of sudden his gf contacted me and said he n her was in relationship wow his action wow wow he was flirting with me like anything before meeting n he was saying his fav position i never had x in my life so i knew nthg plus i had some depression so never found pleasure in it or it never interested me. After his gf found out everything he is hiding in a mask saying he had luv for me. No he never did. Never . It was his mask. Why? Is this common in mallapuram? His frdz also involved in this. His frd booked ticket for me. His frd was in cl while we were returning back he was teasing him asking wt was my inner clr. Idk they were speaking in Malayalam later i just figured it out by writing every convo down. He is a scammer in a total. Left my life in ease. Committed suicide 2 tyms. Admitted in icu. Now parents are not allowing me to clg n he played a nice role and got his seat high. Tell me why? I thought Kerala ppl are really kind. But why? Wt happened to you people’s? Is this common? Did anyone faced the same? My hand was trembling sorry for the typ error. I couldn’t see the screen properly.