u/r3njun

nung pinaka-first sem namin as freshies okay naman sila (theres two of them). pero next sems na naging parang avoidant (??) or standoffish sila sakin. i noticed this bc isang araw, nag-aactivity lang kami sa class, and we were drawing and coloring models which didnt require much focus kasi sobrang basic lang, and lahat talaga nagdadaldalan (sila din nakikipagdaldalan as well). i asked them a question about the activity and di ako sinagot so i thought my voice was just mahina, so i asked again PERO NAG AACT SILA NA PARANG GHOST LANG AKO WTF. sinabi na nung isang classmate namin “huy tinatanong kayo” pero kunwari parin walang narinig…?!

i had good relationships/friendships with our other progmates/batchmates naman & got along well with everyone. wala naman akong possible na ginawang mali sa kanilang dalawa kasi hindi ko sila regularly kausap, parang normal lang naman kaya di ko talaga gets

is this a normal thing at UP? naexperience niyo na din ba to hahahahah

please dont share anywhere outside this sub!

for context, tatlo kaming magkakapatid and ako yung bunso. my siblings are 29-30 y/o and they both have never had partners. like ever. may rule yung mom ko na no dating before graduating college, and sinunod to ng siblings ko, but because of this—pareho silang parang partners ngayon & my eldest sibling is prude AS FUCK and mas strict pa kaysa sa parents namin when it comes to disciplining me. lagi niya ko minamicro-manage na parang wala siyang sariling buhay. lagi siyang focused on me and my life and what im doing 😭

so i met my bf beginning ng grade 12 (we’re both in college now) and di ko pa siya naiintroduce sa family ko, sa closest cousins ko pa lang who can keep my secret lol. mag-3 years na kami this year and sobrang nalulungkot kami pareho kasi parang ang laking hurdle nung pag-introduce ko sa kanya sa family ko. i feel like its unfair to him also because kilalang kilala na ako ng family niya, pero on my side tinatago ko parin siya.

i feel like my parents would be okay naman, even if disappointed sila at first. understanding naman sila especially mother ko pag nakausap ko na and theyve heard what i have to say. i think yung main problem and stress ko lang talaga is my eldest sibling. sobrang explosive din ng anger niya kaya sobrang nasstress ako iniisip ko pa lang kung anong magiging reaction niya. im not scared, i just dont want the stress of the crazed pagwawala & the possible consequent judgmental things na sasabihin niya sakin. elementary and highschool pa lang ako tinatawag niya akong “malandi” for going out with my friends :/

this may be tmi pero this year, on and off na period ko from stress kakaisip dito. im more stressed thinking about this kaysa sa schoolworks ko. 😭

can i request cert of No Pending Case* (Good Moral Character) na now or do i need to wait for the sem to end like the tcg?

im thinking kasi maybe they need to know also if may pending case ako after sem ganun (?)

hi! im planning to shift to bs flcd this 1st sem '26-'27. im planning to take courses this midyr kasi to catch up on some courses, pero dapat ba hindi muna kasi need nila ng complete subjects w/ grades on my tcg?

also any tips po from other flcd s2 shiftees? tysmmm