u/qetuycvjvic

How to manage multiple area of life well?

I'm approaching 30 and have had some success in tech

Let's say I have multi mil savings and I'm decently fit,not 6 pack types but good enough

I've absolutely failed in maintaining friendships I've never been part of big groups and barely have any

Relationship, wasn't able to find someone so far

After work I just feel so bored I have no idea what to do with my life

Should I focus more on dating or try to make a baseline social life first?

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u/qetuycvjvic — 13 hours ago

How to rewire Desi brain entering 30s?

I'm a late 20s male - keeping things short I've been in tech forever and did what my parents told me to and have saved a lot of cash

But it's come at the expense of being socially awkward having very few friends and still single(I've had gfs before)

I was wondering if I should go for long world trip and party with random people but I might be too old for hostels

I wonder how to unwire this Desi nerd brain and become normal

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u/qetuycvjvic — 1 day ago