u/polymath-artist

Hey guys, I'm planning to visit Gwalior for a day to meet my partner on a weekday, I have only one day to spend here so what would be some good places to hangout? My preference is where we could sit and talk for hours, if possible, where there's no need to rush/leave. And if that place also has an Aur Conditioning in this hot summer that would be perfect.

P.s.:- If you guys could also suggest some decent hotels to say that would be wonderful, as I'll not even stay for 24 hours(I have my train scheduled), so not really looking to invest too much money on accommodation so please help me out. Thank you.

TLDR

Long-distance relationship of 1.5 years with lots of love but frequent fights, especially recently. My woman now wants a “break” to focus on herself and studies, still wants to stay in touch but without the relationship label. I’m confused, anxious, and worried she might be seeing someone else, and it’s really affecting me emotionally.

Hey all,

Me (27M) and her (25F) have been in a great relationship for the last 1.5 years. She lives about 12 hours away from my city, and she’s been an amazing companion. Over this time, we’ve visited each other so many times and made great memories. She has cooked for me, bought me things I needed without me even asking, and gave me thoughtful gifts to remember her by. I’ve done similar things for her too, but that’s a story for another day.

During this time, we’ve shown a lot of love, but also had our share of arguments, disappointments, and disagreements, even over the smallest things. It happened from both sides, and we even broke up a few times, but always got back together because our love felt really strong. I’m honestly so in love with her that I can’t imagine anyone else in my life right now. I give her all my time, try to be there whenever she needs me, and even started learning and doing things which she absolutely loves so we can get closer and do activities together(she doesn't know it yet).

She’s never taken advantage of me in any way, she’s genuinely a nice person. But lately, things have been pretty bad. Since April, everything’s gone downhill. We’ve been arguing almost every other day, breaking up and getting back together again. This alone happened like 4–5 times just in April (yeah… I know 🥲).

Recently, she told me she needs a break. She says things have been rough for her mentally and she wants to focus on studying for a couple of exams, so she needs some space from the relationship. She still wants us to stay in touch, but doesn’t want the “relationship tag” right now because she feels she can’t handle it and doesn’t want to make things worse for me.

I do have doubts if she might be seeing someone else and just giving vague reasons to explain the distance. I asked her directly, and she denied it completely and got really defensive, saying how I could even think that and that it shows I don’t trust her.

The thing is, she’s never been like this before, and even she admitted that. I’m just really confused right now what to do, what to expect, how this break is going to be, and how long it’ll last. I know I’m being anxious, but I genuinely love her so much that I can’t imagine my future without her. Acting like we’re not even in a relationship anymore is honestly breaking my heart and affecting my daily life.

I don’t usually talk about my relationship problems, not even with friends, but I really needed to get this off my chest somewhere, so here I am.

P.s.:- Have used LLM to frame my sentences.