Mom refuses to give me house key 20f
Hello all. Door locks from both the inside and outside, there has been multiple counts where my mom has gotten angry at me and has refused to let me out of the house. We live in a super small and packed house (family of nine, house with 3 bed 3 bath) . Finally started driving, but when i get to the door i always have to wait minutes for someone to open the door. This happens at night too. I was just outside for a couple of minutes and it feels scary because, what if i was being followed? I wouldn't even be able to get into my house. This also means that i have to come to her if I want to go anywhere and she has to let me out (she has the key)
I asked her why i couldnt have a house key and she said i dont pay rent and she doesn't have to explain it to me. I'm no longer a child, and I have the right to know at least, but she feels like she has contorl over me still because i live with her. AND NO i cannot move out right now, because my dad has cancer and I need to stay with him right now (for all the weird redditors that are waiting to attack me)
its so infuriating, she treats me as an object but i am my own person