Update on my post and need help
you all were right . I should have left sooner but now I'm making the right decision and leaving for good.
I thought we were ok and doing good when just two days ago I found out that he had been cheating on me again since January. I had a bad feeling prayed that if he was doing wrong God would show me the truth and my prayer was answered.
my kids and I have been at his house for the April break. Monday night I prayed and that same night he got so drunk I was able to get into his phone with his thumb print and found that he had been cheating on me through Snapchat from January to the most recent message being 12:30 that night. he was texting her obscene things while I was sleeping with my head in his lap.
it gets worse I sent some of the screenshots to his father and he started spilling all the tea on this woman. apparently her mother is a family friend of his fathers and her mom's a pastor. not only that but she's married. to a navy officer.
I've been trying to find this man to let him know what's going on but they both have their socials on lockdown so I'm hoping the good people on here will help me find him. her first initial is k last name Arnold and they are from Virginia. please help me get the truth to this man .