Something Blue Crew
I have been asked by my friends to be part of the something blue crew and I can’t help but feel hurt by it. I’m very happy they want me as part of their big day, and I’m trying to see it in a different light.
Backstory: Me and my two best friends met in college at Bama, been best friends for 5 years. Always been a trio, but both of them are a couple of hours away from eachother, I’m livin a state away now. So naturally they see eachother a hell of a lot more. They’re also both in a similar stage of life, engaged in the country. I’m single in the city.
Both of them messaged me on the same day asking to be there something blue. It feels like a consolation prize, like I’m not quite good enough to be a bridesmaid. I am also thinking that it’s clear I’m not equal in the trio, I’m assuming they are each others maid of honours. But I also am quite sensitive and not sure if I’m taking it too seriously.
I was wondering if y’all had any positive experiences of being part of the something blue crew to help me shift my perspective?