Should I reach out to someone who ghosted me?
I was getting to know a potential for a few weeks. We had a few phone calls, though it lasted 4+ hours each time, and I genuinely enjoyed the vibe this person brought.
During our last phone call, I asked him how he was feeling so far and if it’s something he’d like to continue pursuing. His answer was that he’s still getting to know me (fair answer!) but he enjoyed our conversations. That was the last conversation we had before he fell off the face of the earth.
Now, I’m used to convos dying or people ghosting, but this one is keeping me puzzled. He never removed me from socials, just stopped replying out of the blue. We don’t live in the same country so I have no idea what happened as it seemed to me the convo we were having was great.
I don’t have an issue with someone changing their mind as marriage is a serious thing. You could get to know someone and realize they’re not for you. However, it’s usually the convo dying and we just remove each other from socials and move on.
Do you guys normally remove the person from social media if the talking stage wasn’t working out? I haven’t reach out to this individual, and I’m a bit conflicted on whether I should because it just felt, at least on my end, the talking stage ended abruptly.