u/partyhat-red

How to go about buying the house from my Lanlord?

Currently been living in this house for 7 years and Lanlord says he wants to sell, so it’s either move out or buy it. I’ve grown quite fond of this house and have the cash saved up to buy it in full, no loans needed. I’ve never bought a house before; and he’s never sold a house before. Trying to figure out how to get started, do I just write him a check and he gives me the deed? Complete noob when it comes to this I’ve rented my whole life, TN if it matters

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u/partyhat-red — 20 hours ago

Feeling guilty that first couple of kids have more “memories” than the other kids

Hey parents, I’m sure I’m not alone in this judging by all the memes I’ve seen, but I’m guilty of basically obsessing over everything with my first born, I was over protective, took a million pictures and videos, every holiday was over the top, birthdays were crazy over the top etc. Then the second one came along and it was similar but not as over protective, took slightly less pictures and videos, etc. Fast forward to today (4 kids now, 12,9,5,2), and there’s so much going on now and so many kids we just don’t do all these over the top things we used to do.

I was going through the attic and noticed so much stuff from my first and second born, hand prints and feet prints on shirts marking age milestones, tons of holiday things like ornaments with hand prints on them, photo albums full of pictures, etc, and started feeing bad that my 3rd and 4th don’t have all these mementos like the older ones. I don’t even have any actual physical photos of my 3/4th born (besides a few around the house, but not albums full like the other two), I have plenty in my hard drives of course I guess I could always print them out. Also going through my hard drives I’ve noticed over the years I’m taking way less photos and videos then I used to, idk just feeling bad that the first two seem to have gotten more attention

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u/partyhat-red — 3 days ago