relationship advice - crush
hey ya'll.
Im a queer woman who is married to a man (its still a weird thing for me to deal with tbh bc I feel like ive lost part of my identity because I seem straight passing)
ANYWAY. Im poly but in a monogamous relationship and i absolutely LOVE my husband and I also love women. So I try to be as careful as possible about like not crossing any lines with queer friends, especially new ones because things tend to become some sort of spicy alot if the time.
complimenting each other and ike hyping each other up which can sometimes become a bit. more friendly.
Anyway I made a friend and she's super cool extremely cute and we really really get along but I feel like im developing a crush on her and I am like stuck on how to move forward. im trying my utmost to compliment without flirting etc but the line is getting blurry.
She knows im married and she may not have any crush-y feelings towards me, but i can feel that mine is growing.
Idk i just dunno who to talk to about this. we see each other often because we're part of a workshop which happens multiple times a week.
I was going to mention it to her like casually but that could/would open up a major can of worms.
Im just a bit lost, this has happened to me before in different stages of my life but I still dont know how to deal with it - especially now that im married.
PLS HELP ME. 😭😭 im feeling loopy