u/odiephonehome

Hi everyone. I’m organizing a dinner with four couples and reached out to ask all of the wives for their availability. So far everyone has given actual dates, except one of the wives, who stated, “we’ll be in and out of town over the next few weeks. You all pick a date and we’ll see if we can drop in.” I want everyone to attend, so I’m happy to pick a date that works for everyone, and I’m not sure how to respond to this. When I pressed again for their availability, she reiterated that she really couldn’t say. Should I leave this alone and assume they’re uninterested, or rearrange the dinner to fit their schedule once we select a date? Proposed responses are very much appreciated!

Edit: thanks to most of you. I picked a date and she and her husband are fortunately able to make it. Appreciate the comments.

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u/odiephonehome — 9 days ago