u/nyanpink

i only do these rarely and usually outside the usa so it was never an issue but i have a trip in nyc and booked a $400 hair treatment that i've been saving up for. and their website says standard gratuity is 18%?? i don't understand why i need to pay more, i am already paying 400. is it ok if i dont pay it? it stresses me so much because im on tight budget. i wanted to get my nails done too but seems if you don't give 20% tip on nails you are a demon? how bad is it if i dont tip?? sorry if i sound dumb i am just not used to this at all and it seems bizarre to me

my sp9 bf and i were talking out our latest relationship struggles and i was asking him like, why did you act this way in dms? why did you say this thing? did it upset you when i did this certain thing?

and no matter how i asked him his answer was that he doesn't remember. even though it was just a few days ago. he said he doesn't remember every little thing and has no idea why he acted a certain way, even though it's all vital moments.

it's just bizarre to me because i play these moments over and over in my head, considering every possibility, reexamining my own reactions and reasoning, theorizing his. and to him it's nothing and he doesn't even remember

is this normal

i always hated fi and found it the most annoying function but as i get older i kind of admire how firm fi users are in their values. i've realized the value of knowing whats important to u and being able to stick by that. as intp if im given sufficient logical reason i can end up doing things that ppl might find immoral or might not be consistent with what ive said in the past i value. and yea it annoys me that logic wont sway fi users values but i admire it as well. as i grow i try to develop stronger more firm values for myself too. and i think this may annoy the ppl around me lol, i learned to be pretty firm w my boundaries and values now

need handbag with multiple pockets inside for storing cards and money, makeup , tickets etc...