u/ninetytwoturtles

Another one bites the dust

I recently went on a date that I thought went super well, I thought we really clicked and had great chemistry, but then she hit me with the “i just wanna be friends” text the next day. I feel so confused and conflicted, because on the one hand I get it, sometimes you’re just not feeling somebody even if the date was nice. On the other, I can’t stop replaying how the date went and if I should’ve been more flirty/forward or done something different. Ultimately and logically I know there’s nothing I can do to change the past so it’s no use harping on it. But idk I guess I’m in a bit of an overthinking mindset right now that I’m trying to break out of. Just needed to get this off my chest. I’m gonna just let myself feel sad for a little bit, then do something fun. Idk what yet! Suggestions to get me out of this overthinking spiral are very welcome :)

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u/ninetytwoturtles — 1 day ago