every other Tuesday | 8:30 - 10 pm EST | via Zoom

FACILITATORS: u/theinvisiblemonster + u/narcclub

DISCUSSION PROMPTS:

• When you lie, is it more often a planned act or an impulsive/automatic response? Do you lie more by fabrication or by strategic omission?
• If everyone you know compared notes about you, what wouldn’t line up?
• Have you ever told a lie so many times it started to feel true (ie, you started to believe it yourself)? Explain.
• Have you ever lost control of a narrative? Elaborate. Specifically: what did that feel like, and how did you react?
• Have you ever caused someone to doubt their own memory or perception? How did you justify that to yourself? 
• Do you believe people can truly know you – and if not, does that feel more like relief or a loss?
• What’s a belief about yourself that you’re invested in maintaining, even if it’s not fully true?
• When did lying first become useful for you? Was there a time in your childhood when telling the truth didn’t feel safe or effective? Do you operate as if those conditions are still true?

What is Dark Narc Club?

A confidential, nonjudgmental peer support group for people navigating comorbid NPD/traits and ASPD/traits to talk openly with one another. No pathologizing, no absolution – just patterns, consequences, and what you choose to do next.

Sign up to join/get the links here.

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- Max 😈