u/namesnightpain

Sx8 VEFL/VELF

thoughts on this combo? i was looking into ashley graves and seeing what people are typing her as and the general consensus/what i personally think is sx8 VExx. thoughts on the combo?

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u/namesnightpain — 2 days ago

Type me <3

Basically what the title says, the questionnaire is below thank u in advance!!

LOGIC

you find that truth and understanding of systems in life are an important aspect that should be highly valued? How do you usually go about learning and forming an understanding of a concept? honestly no, just do what works for you, yes while listening can only do so much i personally learn more with tangible concepts and ideas that can be practically applied, anything extra is well.. extra

How easily do you find yourself changing opinions or viewpoints? What sorts of things can influence your views the most/least?  I dont easily change my mind about something unless u show me tangible evidence, only then am i pliable otherwise im just angry and confused lol

Are you more likely to assume that you’re right or wrong about an issue? Is it important for you to always be right? How easy is it for you to admit it when you’re wrong? Loll i always try to assume im right, especially if i had my hands on the situation or object before, but, if someone shows me a better way or proves im wrong i can easily admit that

How do you react when someone disagrees with you during a logical debate? How do you go about defending your beliefs, if at all? Do these types of situations make you doubt your views easily? I get angry haha, mostly at myself cuz i cant articulate arguments all that well, i dont really defend my beliefs i just go "ur wrong plus ur ugly" or somethin like that, especially cuz my beliefs are very few and universal so its honestly dumb to argue with them.

How do you feel about debating logical chains and evidence? (Can discussions and debates help you sort your thoughts out, or are you more likely to see them as unnecessary? Do you find debates more stressful or fun?) no, no nope, just tell me whats factual or wrong and ill adjust.

Do you feel the need to explain your own logical understanding to others? Do you feel the need to have others explain their understandings to you?

No to the first one yes to listening to others, despite not prioritizing it i do love learning.

VOLITION:

Do you consider yourself to be a naturally motivated person? What helps motivate you? Do you need others to motivate you and/or provide incentives for you to work? Yes, thinking about what i want or what ill lose are motivation enough, i dont need anyone t6o tell me to do something or when, unless theyre warning me.

Are you someone who has a clear sense of direction and purpose? Is this something that matters to you? What do you gain a sense of meaning from? Yes and no, i have a general idea of how i want to live my life but its not super detailed or concrete, but ive always an insatiable desire for more in anything and everything that might be direction enough honestly and i dont like being told otherwise. as for meaning im not sure what thats asking tbh but to quote ariana "i see i like i want it i got it "

How is your relationship with goals? Do you often share them with others (or help others with their goals)? Are you self-assured in what you set out to do, or are you more indecisive and/or easily persuaded by what others around you want? I stick to them to the best of my ability, like i said i dont like being told what i want is wrong or i cant get it. im mostly self assured as long as i know what to do and how to achieve my goals, once i have the tools and info well the rest is history, i only allow the imput of others if it helps me,im not easily persuaded unless i love you or something like that, or if you tell me that me achieving this will harm them in a way i choose a different way to go about it that doesnt but if it still does oh well tough titties

Are you bothered by failures and setbacks? How do you deal with them when they come up? Very much so, i kinda sperg n crash out a little (always in private tho) after i have a little moment of being dramatic about it i come up with a plan b and get back on track

Are you someone who easily competes for things you truly desire? How do you feel about others telling you what to do, or trying to insert their desires into yours? not really, like i said i see it, i want it, i got it, doesnt really matter how long it takes (kinda) n like i said i hate being told otherwise, but if im forced to partake ill try to sneak around it

How do you tend to act when you are part of a team? Are you more of a leader or a follower (or neither)? Do you have an easy time working cooperatively with others? i cooperate easy, i dont really prefer leading, and i have never had to lead i much prefer to do my own thing, tho my ego tells me i could lead haha i mean i have been told im bossy but eh.

Do you consider yourself to be someone with a firm sense of identity? How do you feel when other people assert their ideas about who you are?

no one can tell me who i am, and if try theyre most likely wrong, idk how firm my identity is honestly, i couldnt tell u why. but yeah its fairly solid

PHYSICS:

How important are factors such as clothing, hygiene, and appearance to your everyday life? Do you feel confident in your body and tastes? Are you often swayed by trends and the opinions of others in terms of fashion and aesthetics? yes yes and i like what i like, idc if its old or out of style imma make it in style lmao or try to, and i draw from trends to do that.

How do you handle your senses being disturbed? Are you sensitive to problems like discomfort, sickness, and pain? (Or are you unaware/able to push past them/etc..) yes, despite me being very physically sensitive im also just as resilient as weird as that sounds, ik i dont quite get it myself, like i could get a cut and if i cant treat it right away (which is what i prefer to do) ill just get used to it kinda til i can, getting used to pain is rather simple for me and i lowkey thank my sensitivity, i feel things hard and fast but i adjust just as quickly.

How is your relationship with physical activity? Are you someone who naturally desires a more comfortable and inert lifestyle, or do you have a hard time staying still? Do you find external encouragement and incentives for taking care of your body useful? i love being comfy and inert ngl but that shit gets boring fast, i do kinda have a hard time staying still but i can be lazy at the same time, and yes i love taking care of my body, its the one thing that can never leave u so take care of it n make it pretty lol.

Do you enjoy pushing yourself to try new foods, activities, or styles? How picky are you regarding these things, and what helps you decide what you want to explore?not very picky honestly, ill try anything once, and if something looks interesting or different and beautiful i tend to want to see more of it.

How is your relationship with your physical environment? Are you usually attuned to your surroundings? Is being organized something that matters to you and/or comes naturally? How do you feel when another person enters your space and tries to help you with it? (e.g. by cleaning) very much so, im kinda territorial and dont really like people intruding or changing my space, but as im sure u gathered, i love upgrades, so if someone has a good idea i tend to listen.

How do you handle your finances and possessions? Is this an area of ease in your life, or do you find yourself becoming overly reckless or stingy? Do you consider yourself to be a materialistic person? very reckless n very materialistic, thats all i gotta say lmao

How do you react to criticism or advice regarding how you handle any of the above things? i dont take it too tell honestly, gotta be constructive criticism at least.

EMOTIONS:

Does self-expression come naturally to you? What emotions do you find easier or harder to express? What goals do you have when dealing with your levels of emotional expression, if any? Very much so, like i said i sperg out haha, im very emotionally expressive , theres no goal honestly just for fun mostly. being a drama queen is fun loll

Are you someone who is in touch with their inner emotional world? Are you good at understanding how you feel about something and why? Do you find others’ insight into how you are/should be feeling beneficial? i just now if i like something or not, if someone has something to add to it i listen n am actually very curious on what they think.

How good are you at balancing your focus between your own emotions and the emotions of others? Are you more naturally attuned to others’ feelings and reactions, or to your own?  yes and no, i dont really have a filter tbh i just say n react as i go and if someone doesnt like it i try adjust or just remove myself entirely.

How easily caught up on specific feelings do you become? Do you value being able to detach yourself from your emotions? (And is this something you’re good at?) its funny lol cuz as much as i crash out and try to win oscars i can kinda easily detach myself. you know that one tiktok auduio thats like "oh my god ill never make it this time THIS IS THE END…anyways” yeah thats how i deal with the

How do you normally react when someone shares their emotions with you? Do you enjoy handling situations like these?i just take it as it comes and try to comfort if it comes to that via hug, or something. but yeah i jus listen and if they want my input i will
 
When others are speaking on topics regarding emotion, are you more inclined to express, engage, or pull away? Do you adjust to emotional atmospheres, or do you feel more separate from them? How comfortable are you with conversations focused on emotional vulnerability? express and engage vulnerability on the other hand im very uncomfortable with if its me that has to be vulnerable, i hate explaining how i feel out of invalidation or not being able to articulate whats wrong very well

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u/namesnightpain — 3 days ago

hiii, thoughts on my sun, mercury n mars in the 8th? how ill it manifest? if yall have any other thoughts on my chart pls lmk!!

u/namesnightpain — 12 days ago