day 9 post-labiaplasty and i'm SUFFERING — someone pls tell me this gets better 😭
y'all i am struggling.
got labiaplasty done for asymmetry 9 days ago and honestly i thought i'd be turning a corner by now?? NOPE. peeing still burns like hell, sitting for more than 20 min is a nightmare, and i made the mistake of walking around target yesterday — almost cried in the candle aisle lol.
the swelling is giving alien. like i cannot even picture what this is supposed to look like when it's healed bc right now it's just… a mess down there.
called my surgeon and got hit with the classic "everyone heals differently" ok great thanks bestie very helpful 🙃
i'm literally doing EVERYTHING — sitz baths, icing, loose grandma panties, meds on schedule. but i'm lowkey starting to spiral.
anyone who's been through this:
is day 9 pain still in the normal range or should i be worried??
when did the swelling actually chill out for you?
pls tell me you also had the "omg i ruined myself" panic phase
i love this sub bc where else am i gonna ask this 😅 my coworkers think i had a "minor procedure" and i'd like to keep it that way lmaooo