Question: what do you do about the "bulge?"
I'm a gender-fluid dude who loves wearing skirts (sometimes), but there's something I struggle with: the skirts I like to wear tend to leave a noticeable bulge in front, which makes me really self-conscious.
I tend to prefer flat-front skirts in softer fabrics without much poofiness, where the line sort of goes straight down from the waist. But those skirts are made with cis women in mind, so they don't accommodate for men's anatomy. This isn't a size thing; even an average or smaller-than-average guy can have this issue, I'm sure. It's not an issue when I wear pants.
I'm not going to start tucking, but I also don't want to feel like I'm on display every time I go out in a cool skirt. Is there a particular kind of underwear that gives better support, or something? Or is this just something we gotta live with, and I'm making too big a deal of it?