u/moreveggiespls

Problem/Goal: Someone who clearly knows me made an account to follow me.

Context:

I’m a very private person and all of my socials are in private. Recently, an unknown ig account requested to follow me. A new account based in the Philippines. I didn’t mind it at first kasi madami namang nagpapareqest ng unknown account sa akin BUT here’s the thing, this same account followed me on my secret dump account! A dump account where only a few know. My dump account kasi has no followers and following, private and I blocked everyone that I knew para di nila mahanap ang dump account ko by accident. It’s like my own virtual diary kasi. There’s like 3 people who knew about it. My bf, bff, and an ex. I already blocked my bf, bff on my dump account and they respect my privacy so it’s not them. I also asked them about it and was confirmed that it wasn’t them. Idk about sa ex kasi, I changed my username so he shouldn’t be able to figure out my account. I couldn’t block him that time cuz he also changed his username and I couldn’t find his account. Tapos yung bio pa was “Say yes to heaven” THAT’S MY FAV SONG. That’s no coincidence na. This person knows me. 

Previous attempts: I messaged that account and asked who this person was. Hindi nag seen. 

Tbh, I’m really bothered by this and so I just deleted my ig for the mean time para di check ng check if may response. How do I figure out this person’s identity?

Oa lang ba ako for wanting sex from my partner but he refuses kasi feel nya si maria clara ako?

For those who don’t know, The Madonna-Whore Complex (MWC) is where men view women dichotomously as either saintly "Madonnas" (pure, nurturing) or debased "whores" (promiscuous, sexual).

My partner has admitted to me that he struggle to feel sexual desire for me because he respects and loves me too much, creating a barrier to intimacy. Basically, ayaw makipag sex kasi feel nya si Maria Clara ako ganern, pure ko daw and that he respects me too much. We use to do it alot before, almost everyday but stopped kasi nagcomplain yung kapitbahay namin (the walls are thin, the bed was loud ig) syempre hiyang hiya kami kaya abstain muna which is understandable. Pero nag months na and we only do it once a month, he rejects me when i try to initiate. Feel ko tuloy ang lustful ko. Wala na rin kasi kaming kapitbahay, they moved to a bigger room. So I thought it was okay but he told me he prefers this, yung minsan nlng like once a month tapos cuddle nalang. Am I oa for this? I can see that he loves me more than just my body but I can’t help but feel rejected kasi puro ako nagiinitiate.