u/monjombo

uj/ why is curatedtumblr so obsessed with us

Holy shit they're literally obsessed with us. Not this sub, but trans people in general. They talk about trans people so much that it's practically stalker-like behaviour.

Like, they unironically debate, critique, and comment on our own culture and community. They act as if they're allowed to do that, when they aren't. Fact: no trans person gives a shit about a cis person's opinion on our own hyper-specific community discourse. Arguments over stuff like 4tran, transmisogyny, misandry towards trans men, and being "valid" or not is already infuriating to deal with when it's coming from US, who the hell do all these cis people think they are believing they have the authority to talk over us on OUR issues???

Like, what goes through a person's head to make them think "I know I'm not part of this community in any capacity, but my opinion still means something!!" Like, NO??? The fuck? Sorry, cissy, your personal thoughts on whether or not nondisphorics are valid or not literally do not matter because YOU ARE NOT TRANS!!! WE DON'T CARE WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT TRANS ISSUES BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT ONE OF US!

Do they think we care? Do all these cis people think we just go, "Y'know, I'm not sure how I feel about this hotly debated topic within the trans community. If only I had a cis person to tell me how they feel about it." WHY DO THEY DO THIS!!! Why can't they just leave us alone? Why does this one fuck off sub feel so strongly about us? What makes the users of CT think their opinions on our own issues actually mean something?

Sorry to break it to you, cissy, but no, I do not care what you think about our own discourse. Yeah, you're right, we do have a lot of infighting. Keyword here being in. Aka, not you. You are not part of our community. We don't care what you think about misandry, or 4tran lingo, or dysphoria, or validity, or nonbinary people, or TME/TMA, or harry potter, or ANYTHING. The literal audacity of someone to see a minority group defined by suffering and then think they have permission to talk all over us with their opinions on OUR ISSUES. What the hell makes you think you have the authority to debate us on our own culture?

It's unironically like, "Silence, tran, a cis person is speaking. Listen and learn." AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH DIEEEEEEEEEEEE.

Rant over.

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u/monjombo — 3 days ago