Coparent wants kids in a new school
So coparent (who is also my abusive and controlling ex) bought a house in a city that apparently has better schools, the school system is rated at 4.5 and the school system my kids are currently in is rated a 4. My daughter (8yo) is currently in gifted classes to make sure her education is supplemental and a little more challenging. My son (5yo) is on an IEP that just got finalized with a solid team and he also sees a counselor once a week that he really likes and has helped us immensely. Keep in mind I am the custodial parent I live in the house the ex and I rented together so I’ve been here about 9 years. Well since my ex has bought a house he is convinced our kids should be in the school system near him. Mind you this new school is a 25 min drive compared to the 3 I drive now I am a student and work two jobs and told him that I really don’t see it being possible as my in person classes are in the morning and I wouldn’t be able to make it work, well he claims I’m letting my kids education suffer because I have to much going on. This is also the man who is against the IEP because “he only acts like that around women” or “no one in life is going to help you”. He is threatening to fight me on this and I have a lot of anxiety about it.