u/mindfullybutch

Hello all, I am in desperate need of making connections with other lesbians, specifically lesbians 25 and older. I am going through my first real heartbreak and I have been trying to get connected with different Discords and such, but I am struggling with them being full of kids, and because of my stage of life, and the nature of my breakup having to do with intimacy, that is not helpful. Does anyone have a community I can join that is 25 plus only on Discord?

Thank you so much.

Hi all, Im new here, and new to Reddit, and Im in a place where I really need fellow queer people right now, especially older lesbians. I'm 27 and most online lesbian communities I've found so far are full of people much younger than me, and I feel I need the wisdom of someone who has lived more life.

I am going through my first real heartbreak with my first real love, my femme, and I just need all the support I can get. It wasn't for lack of love, and today is my second day without her. Long story short I broke up with her because she had a wall up that she couldn't take down, despite her greatest efforts, and we were together for a year and a half and very much so in love and very much so attracted to each other. But that wall couldn't come down and we could never be truly intimate and it started to hurt me too much, but I miss her so so so much.

I think I just need to be heard and need to hear stories of other people going through this or getting through this etc to feel less alone. Anything helps, but I really need stories from people who have lost their first love who they had a soul connection with and still go through losing them and found love again. Especially if that person did nothing wrong. She tried her best, she just wasn't healed enough for that wall to come down and it hurt me. Thank you all.