Trans Lesbians - how do i navigate this?
I’m a lesbian, and I’ve been dating around more, looking for something serious.
I’ve matched with multiple trans women, and felt attracted to them, but I really don’t know how to navigate the bottom surgery topic.
I want someone with a vagina, I’m not attracted to penis, and since I’m looking for something serious, I don’t wanna waste time with multiple dates if they don’t have bottom surgery yet.
I know this topic is sensitive, and I don’t wanna be one of those “what’s in your pants?” people because other than my own dating preferences, I don’t care.
So trans women, how do I navigate this while dating?
I don’t want to go on multiple dates and get to know someone, like them, just to find out that something that there’s a fundamental dealbreaker. Not to mention, not everyone plans to get surgery.
Please help me