How you feel about sex as an activity
We all have in common that we feel sexual attraction when an emotional bond is there but what about the feelings around the activity?
Personally my feelings vary: I might be very enthusiastic about it to have it with my partner to sometimes feelings that yeah it's nice and satisfies me or something like that, like not that enthusiastic about it but it's still nice. I'm in a long term relationship and maybe I'm a bit insecure to not always be super enthusiastic about it every time. I think the media shows sex always as something huge and the best thing ever and when I do not feel that excited most of the time (never did actually) I start to question is this normal or something to be concerned about. Or is it just a thing that happens in most long term relationships when the honeymoon phase is over?
So yeah this is probably not exactly a demi thing but just wanted to hear your experiences and thoughts