New to Poly
Hi! I apologize if this isn’t allowed. My partner (30M) and me (30F) are new to poly. We’ve had threesomes in the past, but nothing that ever turned into a relationship.
We met this girl recently that we both hit it off with. It felt like she met our relationship very well.
The last time we all had sex was good. But I noticed my partner really enjoyed it. Like really. Like they’ve never sounded like that with me or have enjoyed themselves that much.
Long story short I ended up asking them what they would rank the sex with our new partner. And they said a 9. When I asked what they would rank sex with me, they said a 6.
I know it was my fault for asking the question in the first place, but I also felt like I just needed to hear it bc I was already thinking it anyway.
My question is, is this something to take pause at? Should we discontinue the relationship until I can work on my hurt feelings/jealousy. Or is this something that we should consider working through? TIA