u/maynoucha

I think that We strive for awareness and control over our lives, seeking truth, happiness, power, and health, while trying to keep everything under control. We form beliefs—even if inaccurate—as tools to understand and organize reality.

However, this need for control is not constant. At times, it shifts into surrender, where we rely on an external source of stability and meaning, such as a romantic partner, a religious belief, or financial security through work or business. This can also appear in intimate relationships as a consensual form of surrender within trust.

What do you think?

What advice would you give to anyone on their twenties ?.

And what advice would you give to me especially? I am 22 years old ,and I tend to be open-minded and intellectual creative , but I do not like routine , technically complexities , or sensory-based work even if it involves creativity .

What skills would you recommend that i learn ?

حتى لو تعطيني كلمات زي (مو الرجال زي بعض ) و (الشر موجود حتى عند النساء ) منطقيا مقبول ، لكن قلبي و عقلي رافض الفكرة . انا ما تعرضت ل شي شنيع مثل الاغت.صاب ، بس بمجرد ان اسمع شي كذا ازيد اكرههم. ما بعمري اعرف رجل منيح و منهم والدي . كل ما أؤمن انو يوجد رجال جيدين يصير العكس . انا مقتنعة 100% انه لا يوجد رجل يحب إمرأة بصدق مثل لما المرأة تحب بصدق و مهما كانت هناك حجج منطقية انا مش قادرة أصدق و أؤمن بالعكس . انا نادمة عن اي ذرة حب اعطيته ل اي شاب أحببته و الآن قلبي مغلق مش قادر يحب اي رجل و مستمتعة بهذه الراحة .