Parents/Parents-in-law
Got arranged marriage, initially my wife had a hard time adjusting to everything and being the first DIL there was too much expectation she had to overcome from my parents. But after 8 years of marriage and 2 kids and still living with my parents, we still feel stuck. Nothing what we do is enough for my parents, we are constantly under the microscope, walking in eggshells. We already fought multiple battles in this house and in the end, parents would pull an emotional bs and turn it around and say it happens in every household; this too will pass. I made it clear that we want to move out but then parents will throw a tantrum and just emotionally show that they don’t support this decision. I am lost at this point, I want to move out and raise my own family. But constantly stuck in this situation where the people around me do not consent to this decision. I am emotionally exhausted and burned out from work and family.