u/mandarina111

Yesterday I watched one of the documentaries on ID, and I am wondering how it is possible that many of the serial killers have a partner/wife (completely normal and non violent relationship) and do not harm her, while they terrorize and kill dozens of other women?

Also, why do so many women comply with them and excuse their behavior? Are those the ultimate “pick me”s?

(English is not my native language, and I am sorry for grammar mistakes)