u/m205

I'm gonna guess the most logical answer is likely best - Contact them and ask for a refund of the overpay. I was wondering though if anyone's experienced a similar situation and could indicate how fast Croydon council move on matters like this? Gonna guess not fast at all, which stinks as I'm hand to mouth right now and need any £ I can wrangle.

Also silly question but if I simply underpay this month to account for the difference will they hound me like I'm a criminal or will it just add up as all square on their system? Cheers huns.

Had our third date yesterday (m/late twenties and f/early thirties) and ended up doing everything except sex, lot of lying together and cuddling too, was really nice. I told her I like her and she said she liked me -- Grand.

Up until now we've basically had one text exchange with each other per day, you know the kind where you reply to each of the previous texts one by one and then hours later when the other person gets a chance they do the same. Stuff to do with what we've been up to and also little get-to-know-you things, nothing major. Now I'm thinking do I approach texting differently, just a bit more 'on it' and involved? For example: When I left hers we exchanged a few texts as I was on the train and that's it -- Now I'm thinking oh maybe I should have sent a goodnight message later on as well.

I know this sounds like I'm overthinking things but I'm just now getting into dating and I haven't figured out all the nuances yet.

She's going abroad for a week so I won't see her for a little bit now... My instinct is to not text too much during this time as don't want to interrupt her holiday, is that dumb?

Sorry this is rambley haha :-D