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Image 1 — Update: Distant and space, broken up
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▲ 23 r/LDR

Update: Distant and space, broken up

Breaking up and moving on. (This is my second relationship) It does not get easier. I am incredibly so hurt, I feel like I wanna scream, I been crying so much. I haven’t ate, don’t have an appetite. All i wanna do is sleep and forget this pain.

I don’t get how someone could tell you that they love you so much, talk about our future and now it’s gone like that.

It’s scary to give love nowadays you’ll only get hurt.

People is really out here faking it and pretending. That’s scary. Talk about trauma, just gained another in my list.

(I also found out that he unblocked one of his ex)

u/lovenuggie_ — 2 days ago
▲ 6 r/LDR

Distant and space

I guess I need advice from different perspectives.

We have been dating for few months (both in our mid 20’s) and met already, everything was good, he was affectionate,funny and would spend a lot of time with me, just a normal couple sometimes we’d be in disagreement but we apologized and fix it.

Lately he is being distant. He said he is under stress from work. He is being less affectionate and we also been having less calls. If I call him, he is not really present with me, kinda quiet but would talk to other people around him. Also he’d call his bro and spend hours talking to him which im not mad about but it does gives me a feeling that maybe he just doesn’t wanna talk to me. I feel really disconnected and feel like a less of a priority. I been putting off telling him how i feel bcuz I don’t want it to stress him more but it feels heavy for me.

Well I told him how I felt and to make it short he said that he is stressed and need space. There’s no I love you or reassurance. Felt cold honestly.

I feel like it is unfair this whole thing is just giving me anxiety.

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u/lovenuggie_ — 2 days ago