M-21 F20 ,I got friendzoned, give your opinion
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So, our families have been friends for about a decade, but we didn’t really talk much growing up.
Around 3 years ago, there was her mama’s wedding, and that’s when we actually started interacting more. At that time, she used to call me “bhaiya” because I didn’t have any feelings for her either. But during the wedding, we became really close friends. We genuinely enjoyed each other’s company.
She had a great time with me, and slowly, I started developing feelings for her.
We only hung out for about 5 days during the wedding. After that, we stayed in touch through chatting, but not very frequently. She lives in Bangalore, and I live in Lucknow, so we didn’t really get to spend much time together in person.
Last night, I finally confessed my feelings to her.
She said that I’m really sweet and fun to be with, but she doesn’t see me as a boyfriend right now. She told me that she always thought of us as just very good friends and can’t imagine us being together.
I respect her feelings, but I really love her. What should I do to change her perspective?