u/lookingatthetrees

Please hit me up with a list of activities or hobbies that could be sustained for a mum with two sons; they could be left for an hour close to Tuart hill; or they could come and do homework/screen time.

I am married but he’s checked out he’s working 60:70 hrs then at the pubs and bars or sleeping.

Weekend days I have school work (teacher), housework, and boys sports.

I love socialising and I am super lonely because I have little adult contact beyond work or kids stuff!

Cost is an issue. So I couldn’t afford like F45.
Thanks for the tips tricks advice and positivity

I’d love to hear from people single or in relationships.

I’m in a long term marriage (almost 20 years) my husband is always wanting to the pub (without me) and bars/clubs often too.

(Context, he’s cheated in the past so I’m aware this could be why he’s wanted to go again)

But the conversation he’s always having with me is that “most men” are at pubs etc weekly and that it’s completely normal for men to be in bars and clubs and I’m not invited to go along.

I’d love to hear what you do in your home? And if you’re not a pub club goer, what are your hobbies/weekend activities?

I just want to know what else is out there not because I’m looking but I’m constantly getting told his is the norm.

we have two sons, one in high school and one in primary, I work full time two, I do the lions share of kids logistics and care. I don’t get out much (once or twice a year) beyond the kids events and sports. It’s not about that, more that I’m quite lonely, I guess I need to find hobbies myself so some of these might prompt me!
Tl;dr what hobbies do you engage with and how often?

I’d love to hear from people single or in relationships.

I’m in a long term marriage (almost 20 years) my husband is always wanting to the pub (without me) and bars/clubs often too.

(Context, he’s cheated in the past so I’m aware this could be why he’s wanted to go again)

But the conversation he’s always having with me is that “most men” are at pubs etc weekly and that it’s completely normal for men to be in bars and clubs and I’m not invited to go along.

I’d love to hear what you do in your home? And if you’re not a pub club goer, what are your hobbies/weekend activities?

I just want to know what else is out there not because I’m looking but I’m constantly getting told his is the norm.

we have two sons, one in high school and one in primary, I work full time two, I do the lions share of kids logistics and care.