u/longtimelurking1

Would your parents be okay with you living with them?

When I was in med school and residency, my parents were perfectly fine with me living at their place. Even now, if I somehow got fired and my wife and I had nowhere to go, my parents would be fine with us moving in with them. I assume this is the norm because of the culture most of us are raised in. After chatting with some colleagues (white ones), I thought about how most of them were kicked out of their houses after high school or right after college here in the States. This certainly doesn't seem to be the case for my African American friends and other Asian American ones. I believe it's also true for Hispanic families.

So I have a few questions:

  1. What's your ethnicity/cultural background?

  2. Would your parents be okay with you moving in with them at your age and for how long?

  3. Would you be okay with living with your parents now (do you have a good or bad relationship with them etc)

  4. Is this something that's just really prevalent in white American families in your opinion?

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u/longtimelurking1 — 2 days ago

Having trouble connecting bank account to Fidelity?

Hi all, I've been having trouble linking my bank account to my fidelity account.

I've gone through the "add funds" option and completed the process of adding my bank. However, whenever I refresh my page there is no account linked to my bank when I go to "Which account do you want to move money from?" I've been trying to connect my bank account for the past 2 weeks but there's been no progress.

Additionally, the fees that were meant to be charged to my bank account for verification never showed when I checked my transactions.

Similarly, my relatives have had this problem, so I was wondering if there is a fix to this and how widespread it is? Happened to my account and my relative's Chase and local bank accounts.

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u/longtimelurking1 — 3 days ago
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Anyone else feel like Reddit can just be very blatantly Sinophobic?

Hi all, I'm a long-time lurker on Reddit (mainly here for news and finance), but whenever I see news about China, it often extends beyond criticism of the government to the people as well. I know Redditors often say they don't conflate the two, but I feel like it's the opposite. I have no problem with people going after the government, but treating all Chinese people as a monolith is kinda sucky.

Honestly, I just feel sad as a Chinese American seeing all this stuff. This was on an older news sub, but I still see stuff like this pretty often.

Has anyone experienced this on Reddit, or am I just having unfortunate experiences?

u/longtimelurking1 — 3 days ago