My(23M) gf(20F) has an obsession with cleaning and blames me every time. How can I deal with it?
Hello! First of all I need to tell that I'm a clean guy. I wash dishes, vacuum the rooms once a week or more If something happens.
However, my gf is obsessed with cleaning, and IT got pretty creepy since 2 weeks ago. She walks in the bathroom after i got out of the shower to inspect and see If something doesen't reach her expectations. She don't let me help her cleaning, and tels me that She must clean by herself because I don't know how to do it and she wants to be sure that everything is cleaned as ,, it should be"
Today was the ultimate. Last night one of my friends came over to write our bachelors degrees an we drank 2 cups of Cola. He left around 1AM in the morning, my head was aching terrible so I told myself I will wash the 2 cups in the morning. I slept really bad after, i was home alone, she was visiting her parents. I had to wake up at 5AM, i overslept and woke up around 6.30AM. I was feeling so sick and i was already late at work. Fast forward, around 11 She sent me some vocal messages screaming that I'm a duchebag and i don t care about her and she s threatening to break up with me... for 2 f ing cups on the table.